tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388672983427913037.post7678111188912723165..comments2019-06-08T05:27:39.513+02:00Comments on Sexless Berlin: The (Anti) Monogamy Post, Part IKatchitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08433686130507633826noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388672983427913037.post-89684452807112794162009-04-20T11:06:00.000+02:002009-04-20T11:06:00.000+02:00Yes, indeed, alpha men (also known on this blog as...Yes, indeed, alpha men (also known on this blog as men-who-love-women-so-much-they-find-it-impossible-to-say-no-to-a-whole-assortment) are SO irresistible. And Henry Miller was quite a piece of work: five marriages in addition to Anaïs Nin.<br /><br />A few years ago I would have argued that it's the clash between our social constructs and our true animal natures that causes so much lying. But as I write here, I'm actually beginning to wonder if hiding/lying is intrinsic to our sexual function. Not a particularly cheerful thought, I'm afraid.Katchitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08433686130507633826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388672983427913037.post-74279472063522503202009-04-17T11:23:00.000+02:002009-04-17T11:23:00.000+02:00Lots of women find a married, engaged or paired of...Lots of women find a married, engaged or paired off man more irresistible than one who is not, so I think it’s not a question of being a man or being a woman. Just we, human beings, are like that and in our psyche things we don’t understand at all run deep, very deep.<br /><br />I’m a monogamist. I don’t know if I’m right or wrong, if my monogamy comes from my genes, from the Catholic male chauvinist culture I belong to, from my upbringing or whatever. But I don’t feel like being a polygamist nor do I feel like being with polygamist men. Which doesn’t mean I don’t have a nasty habit of falling for polygamist men, that’s another matter, a big contradiction I hate with all my heart, and my brain too!<br /><br />Above all what I don’t like a bit is lying and, as you said, polygamy and lies are closely related. I don’t think being a liar polygamist (or a polygamist liar) can bring any happiness for one self or for others. And it worries me just the same if the liar lies to me or ONLY to “the other” woman, he is a liar after all. <br /><br />I don’t know if that's why I don’t like Henry Miller’s quotation at all!!!! Just the expression "offers her body" makes my hair stand on end.Rosanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388672983427913037.post-40159436355307453552009-04-17T00:55:00.000+02:002009-04-17T00:55:00.000+02:00Ian, doesn't sound like much of a protector to me....Ian, doesn't sound like much of a protector to me. More like an omega male. Can't imagine I'd ever deign to hit his blog.Katchitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08433686130507633826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5388672983427913037.post-23337995274222636692009-04-16T20:46:00.000+02:002009-04-16T20:46:00.000+02:00So what do you think of the alpha male blogger roi...So what do you think of the alpha male blogger roissy in dc?<br /><br />Have you ever read him? Basically a locker-room braggart who, among other charms, advocates beating the living crap out of your girlfriend because she'll always come back moist and ready.ian in hamburghttp://lettershometoyou.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com