Here's how it works, grrls. In order to avoid having to constantly massage his ego, you need to look for a self-confident man. But keep in mind that men are self-confident for a number of reasons. They're tall. They're good-looking. They're rich. Or they're powerful. It's a safe bet that these specimens should be discarded immediately, if you, like me, want a man who's good in bed. Look for the ones who, despite having none of the above qualities, are still self-confident. It will mean they may have that special talent you're seeking; at a minimum they'll be worth trying out (refer back to Sex Tip #8 for screening techniques).
The One I Like Best isn't tall. He isn't good-looking. He isn't rich and he definitely isn't powerful. But yesterday as I was walking in Lavapiés thinking about when I'll finally get back to Berlin to see him again, some guy walking by broke out into a passionate piropo praising my looks. It must have been written all over my face: man alive does The One I Like Best keep me going back for more.